Character
I dug out my copy - Bird by Bird - which I have started reading a few years ago but have left it unfinished, because a friend has asked me to recently.
I left off at page 44 where the chapter on "Character" starts.This is a book on writing a fiction.
A paragraph in that chapter caught my attention. "Bad things happen to good characters, because our actions have consequences, and we do not all behave perfectly all the time. As soon as you start protecting your characters from the ramifications of their less-than-lofty behavior, your story will start to feel flat and pointless, just like in real life."That is the answer to my situation which I hate facing now. I can't cry against injustice because if I think something is unjust, I am expecting another person to be perfect. All those imperfections are causing us pain. I know I can't expect perfection from others because in many instances, people expect perfection from me and I have failed them. These failings happen despite all good intentions. I can't expect people to see and believe in the goodness in me. Some do, some don't.
The result: others feel let down by me, I feel let down by them.
Also the result: my story is not flat and pointless.
I left off at page 44 where the chapter on "Character" starts.This is a book on writing a fiction.
A paragraph in that chapter caught my attention. "Bad things happen to good characters, because our actions have consequences, and we do not all behave perfectly all the time. As soon as you start protecting your characters from the ramifications of their less-than-lofty behavior, your story will start to feel flat and pointless, just like in real life."That is the answer to my situation which I hate facing now. I can't cry against injustice because if I think something is unjust, I am expecting another person to be perfect. All those imperfections are causing us pain. I know I can't expect perfection from others because in many instances, people expect perfection from me and I have failed them. These failings happen despite all good intentions. I can't expect people to see and believe in the goodness in me. Some do, some don't.
The result: others feel let down by me, I feel let down by them.
Also the result: my story is not flat and pointless.